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scarbowcow

As a renter, many of these things are not options for me. So when moving into a new rental, smell seems to be the key to the place feeling like mine. My way of moving has three steps:

1) clean madly unless the rental is absolutely new, and even then (construction dust can lurk). Sniff everything and clean anything that has an odor: window blinds or shades, inside closets or wardrobes, under the sinks, vacuum or lightly shampoo any furnishings that come with the flat; run the washing machine with whatever it takes to remove any mildew or other smells; clean the drains in the bathroom and kitchen. So far, I've been lucky enough to have a few days to move so I can do all the cleaning before my stuff arrives.

2. Do a marathon of moving in. Start in the morning and work until everything is put away and boxes are collapsed and out of the flat, floor is swept, and everything looks organized. Don't leave ANY boxes 'for later' or anything not put away. Just DO IT in one day (this works for one person in a small apartment, especially if you wisely threw away everything you don't need, don't use, or can get rid of while you were packing up to move). Having all your stuff settled around you as quickly as possible is foundational. You can always change things around as you live in the space, add potted plants, organize the books more sensibly, re-organize the cooking utensils over time, just make sure that everything is out of boxes and put away in a reasonable place before you go to bed. Waking up to a livable space with your own stuff where it needs to be helps hugely in adjusting to the new place.

Putting my stuff in reasonable places helps me get over what I call 'location lag' - that period of adjustment when I come in and reach to the left for the light switch, because that's where it was in the previous flat, or reach out to hang my bath robe to the left of the shower instead of the right, or reach down to grab the hand-towel from the fridge door handle because that was the habit in the previous place, and have to remember that here, it hangs from the oven door. If I can put things in sensible places from the first day, adjusting to the different arrangement of the new flat comes more naturally.

3. Bake some bread as soon as possible. There's something about baking bread that warms the space and establishes a homey aroma in the new place, chases away the 'cold, empty' ambience of a new flat. For someone else, it might be baking cookies or lighting candles or incense. Heat + a familiar scent is the key.


When you walk into your new place and you don't smell anything, when it doesn't smell like paint or cleaning products, etc., then you know that it smells like your house. You can't smell your own home. I have a friend who has visited me in four flats over 20 years and she always says at some point, 'This flat smells like your place now,' and assures me it's not a bad smell. That's when I know that the new place is mine.

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Christine Botti

Love the color yellow for the front door,can you tell me what the color is ?

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Patricia Cole

Love the ideas and the conversation. One of the first things I think about is purchasing a house with potential for adding storage etc. Another thing is to set aside funds for initial upgrades like cleaning, painting and small improvements. Think long term and have project plan for other home improvements.

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