How to Design Your Garden for More Meaning and Connection
Discover 10 ways to connect with nature, from introducing fragrant plants to starting a new tradition
Gardens can connect us to the natural world in meaningful ways, whether we’re plucking the first ripe berries of the season or pausing to watch birds flit through foliage. While we most often talk about the nuts and bolts of landscape design – the shrubs, pathways and irrigation systems that make them work – let’s take a moment to explore the less tangible ways we can design our gardens to foster a connection with nature.
Engage the senses
Scent is a powerful memory trigger. If there’s a fragrance you associate with a time period in your life or a loved one, adding this scent to your garden can take you right back. If you don’t have something in particular you’d like to plant, you can’t go wrong with David Austin’s ‘Gertrude Jekyll’ rose, a pink shrub rose with a cabbage centre and an old-fashioned rose fragrance.
Adding plants for texture, such as fuzzy silver ragwort (Jacobaea maritima), or for movement, such as ornamental grasses that sway in the slightest breeze, is another way to engage the senses and make you feel more connected to a garden.
Scent is a powerful memory trigger. If there’s a fragrance you associate with a time period in your life or a loved one, adding this scent to your garden can take you right back. If you don’t have something in particular you’d like to plant, you can’t go wrong with David Austin’s ‘Gertrude Jekyll’ rose, a pink shrub rose with a cabbage centre and an old-fashioned rose fragrance.
Adding plants for texture, such as fuzzy silver ragwort (Jacobaea maritima), or for movement, such as ornamental grasses that sway in the slightest breeze, is another way to engage the senses and make you feel more connected to a garden.
Slow your journey
Gardens are often places we go to wind down from the rush of everyday life. Think about ways you can set a garden up to help you slow down, perhaps by creating a meditation labyrinth or simply adding more bends and curves to garden paths.
Using stepping stones rather than a smooth paving material can be a useful way of slowing your journey through a garden.
Ground covers grown between flagstones (like the woolly thyme pictured here) can also engage the senses with a tangy herbal smell if crushed. The velvety lamb’s ears (Stachys byzantina) planted on either side of the path here tempt one to bend down and touch the leaves.
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Gardens are often places we go to wind down from the rush of everyday life. Think about ways you can set a garden up to help you slow down, perhaps by creating a meditation labyrinth or simply adding more bends and curves to garden paths.
Using stepping stones rather than a smooth paving material can be a useful way of slowing your journey through a garden.
Ground covers grown between flagstones (like the woolly thyme pictured here) can also engage the senses with a tangy herbal smell if crushed. The velvety lamb’s ears (Stachys byzantina) planted on either side of the path here tempt one to bend down and touch the leaves.
You might also like How to Create a Spirit-lifting Sensory Garden.
Incorporate a meaningful object
Find a home in your garden for an object with meaning, whether it’s a spiritual figure, an object passed down from a friend or family member, or something found on a trip. You can elevate an object’s presence by mounting it on a pedestal or placing it at the base of a mature tree, with the trunk as a backdrop.
Meaningful objects, such as small garden statues passed down from a loved one, can also be effective when tucked into garden beds. When your eye falls on them, you may remember that special person.
Find a home in your garden for an object with meaning, whether it’s a spiritual figure, an object passed down from a friend or family member, or something found on a trip. You can elevate an object’s presence by mounting it on a pedestal or placing it at the base of a mature tree, with the trunk as a backdrop.
Meaningful objects, such as small garden statues passed down from a loved one, can also be effective when tucked into garden beds. When your eye falls on them, you may remember that special person.
Welcome wildlife
Animals and insects give gardens life. The buzz of bees, the splash of a bird in a fountain or perhaps the glimpse of a fox darting along a garden’s edge can instantly grab your attention and make you feel more present.
Plant native species that act as host plants for pollinators or provide food for indigenous birds. Hang a nesting box and put out a source of water, such as a birdbath or plant saucer filled with water. By setting up your garden to help support the creatures around you, you can – in a small way – be connected to a larger natural ecosystem.
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Animals and insects give gardens life. The buzz of bees, the splash of a bird in a fountain or perhaps the glimpse of a fox darting along a garden’s edge can instantly grab your attention and make you feel more present.
Plant native species that act as host plants for pollinators or provide food for indigenous birds. Hang a nesting box and put out a source of water, such as a birdbath or plant saucer filled with water. By setting up your garden to help support the creatures around you, you can – in a small way – be connected to a larger natural ecosystem.
You might also like How to Create a Wildlife-friendly Garden in Spring.
Celebrate the history of the site
You may have inherited landscape features that you might not otherwise have chosen. Instead of seeing these elements as eyesores, imagine the story behind them. This shift in mindset may even make you feel more connected to the history of your home or garden and the people who came before you.
You may have inherited landscape features that you might not otherwise have chosen. Instead of seeing these elements as eyesores, imagine the story behind them. This shift in mindset may even make you feel more connected to the history of your home or garden and the people who came before you.
Take this farmhouse garden in Old Mill Creek, Illinois, in the US, for example. The owners inherited the ruins of an old dairy barn and a concrete grain silo as part of the site.
Instead of wiping the slate clean, they opted to preserve the history of the site and turn the ruins into a walled garden space with a bocce court. The space has more meaning than if the owners had simply constructed new walls to enclose it.
Instead of wiping the slate clean, they opted to preserve the history of the site and turn the ruins into a walled garden space with a bocce court. The space has more meaning than if the owners had simply constructed new walls to enclose it.
Add a secluded seating nook
Even if most of your garden is geared toward outdoor entertaining, you can tuck a bench or seats for a few people in an area away from the main gathering area. You may find that you gravitate toward these areas when you’d like to be quiet and just sit and gaze at the garden.
Look for half-hidden areas that feel more private, such as a side yard, an area tucked alongside a garden shed or a partially concealed spot behind plants.
Thinking of transforming your garden? Find landscape architects and garden designers in your area.
Even if most of your garden is geared toward outdoor entertaining, you can tuck a bench or seats for a few people in an area away from the main gathering area. You may find that you gravitate toward these areas when you’d like to be quiet and just sit and gaze at the garden.
Look for half-hidden areas that feel more private, such as a side yard, an area tucked alongside a garden shed or a partially concealed spot behind plants.
Thinking of transforming your garden? Find landscape architects and garden designers in your area.
Bring in water
Through engaging your senses and welcoming wild birds, water elements can help you feel more present in and connected to your garden. Plus, in urban spaces, fountains that have a consistent trickle or splash can also help to distract from the sounds of traffic and make the place feel more like a soothing retreat.
You don’t need a fancy or expensive fountain to bring water to your outdoor space. A simple design using a galvanized tank, a drilled stone or paver for the water to spill over, and an inexpensive fountain pump can create a lively recirculating fountain, as pictured here.
Through engaging your senses and welcoming wild birds, water elements can help you feel more present in and connected to your garden. Plus, in urban spaces, fountains that have a consistent trickle or splash can also help to distract from the sounds of traffic and make the place feel more like a soothing retreat.
You don’t need a fancy or expensive fountain to bring water to your outdoor space. A simple design using a galvanized tank, a drilled stone or paver for the water to spill over, and an inexpensive fountain pump can create a lively recirculating fountain, as pictured here.
Take note of subtle seasonal changes
Part of the magic of gardens is that they’re constantly changing and evolving. Slowing down and noting small changes – roses beginning to bloom over a trellis in spring or grasses turning tawny in late summer, say – can help connect you to the seasons. Go a step further by including plants you look forward to at each time of year.
Part of the magic of gardens is that they’re constantly changing and evolving. Slowing down and noting small changes – roses beginning to bloom over a trellis in spring or grasses turning tawny in late summer, say – can help connect you to the seasons. Go a step further by including plants you look forward to at each time of year.
Start a new tradition
Look for ways to connect future generations to a garden. Whether you plant a tree for the birth of your child or a niece, nephew or grandchild, or you have children place handprints in cast-concrete stepping stones and sign their name and the date, additions like these can make gardens feel more meaningful to the whole family.
Look for ways to connect future generations to a garden. Whether you plant a tree for the birth of your child or a niece, nephew or grandchild, or you have children place handprints in cast-concrete stepping stones and sign their name and the date, additions like these can make gardens feel more meaningful to the whole family.
Tell us…
What do you do to feel more connected to your garden? Share your thoughts in the Comments.
What do you do to feel more connected to your garden? Share your thoughts in the Comments.
Gardens can be powerful places for connecting us to our roots. Perhaps you remember smelling a specific type of flower your grandmother grew, biting into a homegrown tomato or climbing among the branches of a certain type of tree. Try putting one or more of these nostalgic plants in your own garden as a way to honour that memory or loved one.