Mindful at Home: How To Make Housework Your Meditation
You may have heard about the health benefits of staying in the moment. Here’s how to de-stress through housework
Laura Gaskill
30 August 2018
Houzz Contributor. I cover decorating ideas, Houzz tours & the monthly home maintenance checklist. My favorite pieces to write center around the emotional aspects of home and savoring life's simple pleasures. Decluttering course + discount for Houzzers: https://www.lauragaskill.com/welcome-houzzers
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Simply put, mindfulness is the act of maintaining awareness of the present moment, without judgment. The concept may be a straightforward one, but it can be surprisingly challenging to implement. In the course of even five minutes, your concentration may be pulled away dozens of times into thoughts about the past or the future. A mindfulness practice asks you to notice each time this happens and to gently and persistently call yourself back to the here and now.
It’s worth the effort. The Greater Good Science Center at the University of California, Berkeley has compiled a host of research on the subject, suggesting that mindfulness can reduce stress, boost the immune system, increase empathy and improve memory and attention, among other benefits.
It’s worth the effort. The Greater Good Science Center at the University of California, Berkeley has compiled a host of research on the subject, suggesting that mindfulness can reduce stress, boost the immune system, increase empathy and improve memory and attention, among other benefits.
Chores as Mindfulness Meditation
If you want to take advantage of the far-reaching benefits of mindfulness but haven’t found the time to start working it into your day, consider using a task you already perform as an informal meditation. You already have to get certain things done, so why not practice enjoying them for their own sake rather than rushing to get them over with or worrying about something that happened yesterday? To get started, pick just one chore to practice with. Start small and build up to doing more.
Here are seven common housekeeping chores that lend themselves to the practice of appreciating the present moment. After reading this list, you’ll find five tips to try as you perform each task.
If you want to take advantage of the far-reaching benefits of mindfulness but haven’t found the time to start working it into your day, consider using a task you already perform as an informal meditation. You already have to get certain things done, so why not practice enjoying them for their own sake rather than rushing to get them over with or worrying about something that happened yesterday? To get started, pick just one chore to practice with. Start small and build up to doing more.
Here are seven common housekeeping chores that lend themselves to the practice of appreciating the present moment. After reading this list, you’ll find five tips to try as you perform each task.
1. Wiping the benchtop and stove
If you’re not sure where to begin, this is the task I recommend starting with. Wiping down the surfaces in your kitchen is a job that probably doesn’t take more than about five minutes, but it happens regularly. Begin by setting your intention to create a clean, clear space. As you work, bring your attention to the here and now: to the way the light falls across the benchtop, to your breath and to the simple transformation from crumb covered to clean and smooth.
If you’re not sure where to begin, this is the task I recommend starting with. Wiping down the surfaces in your kitchen is a job that probably doesn’t take more than about five minutes, but it happens regularly. Begin by setting your intention to create a clean, clear space. As you work, bring your attention to the here and now: to the way the light falls across the benchtop, to your breath and to the simple transformation from crumb covered to clean and smooth.
2. Making your bed
Enjoying the simple process of making your bed as soon as you get up in the morning is a small, positive way to start the day. In the same way that you’re more likely to fit in a workout if you schedule it for the morning, you can feel good knowing that whatever else happens during the day, you have devoted at least a few minutes to staying in the present moment.
As you make your bed, don’t rush. Each time your mind wanders, gently bring your attention back to the texture of the sheets, the sounds around you and the simple pleasure of doing a small job well.
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Enjoying the simple process of making your bed as soon as you get up in the morning is a small, positive way to start the day. In the same way that you’re more likely to fit in a workout if you schedule it for the morning, you can feel good knowing that whatever else happens during the day, you have devoted at least a few minutes to staying in the present moment.
As you make your bed, don’t rush. Each time your mind wanders, gently bring your attention back to the texture of the sheets, the sounds around you and the simple pleasure of doing a small job well.
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3. Washing the dishes
In the book The Miracle of Mindfulness, spiritual leader and peace activist Thich Nhat Hanh writes, “If while washing dishes, we think only of the cup of tea that awaits us, thus hurrying to get the dishes out of the way as if they were a nuisance, then we are not ‘washing the dishes to wash the dishes.’ … While drinking the cup of tea, we will only be thinking of other things, barely aware of the cup in our hands.”
Try washing the dishes to wash the dishes – then maybe you will be inspired to drink your tea to drink your tea.
In the book The Miracle of Mindfulness, spiritual leader and peace activist Thich Nhat Hanh writes, “If while washing dishes, we think only of the cup of tea that awaits us, thus hurrying to get the dishes out of the way as if they were a nuisance, then we are not ‘washing the dishes to wash the dishes.’ … While drinking the cup of tea, we will only be thinking of other things, barely aware of the cup in our hands.”
Try washing the dishes to wash the dishes – then maybe you will be inspired to drink your tea to drink your tea.
4. Sweeping, mopping or dusting
Unlike vacuuming (noisy) or scrubbing the bathroom (unpleasant), sweeping, mopping and dusting are all tasks that lend themselves well to longer periods of calm awareness. Choose cleaning tools that you enjoy using, and try keeping them neat and clean on hooks.
Unlike vacuuming (noisy) or scrubbing the bathroom (unpleasant), sweeping, mopping and dusting are all tasks that lend themselves well to longer periods of calm awareness. Choose cleaning tools that you enjoy using, and try keeping them neat and clean on hooks.
5. Caring for plants
Whenever my grandfather was upset about something, he would go into the backyard and water the garden by hand. I think he was onto something.
Plants thrive on your attention in a way your floors or dishes never will. And your mindfulness with plants doesn’t have to happen outdoors – watering and tending to indoor plants works just as well.
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Whenever my grandfather was upset about something, he would go into the backyard and water the garden by hand. I think he was onto something.
Plants thrive on your attention in a way your floors or dishes never will. And your mindfulness with plants doesn’t have to happen outdoors – watering and tending to indoor plants works just as well.
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6. Hanging up laundry to dry
Hanging laundry out to dry already has a meditative quality: Pick up a shirt. Fasten it with two clothes pegs. Reel out a bit more line. Repeat.
If you have a clothesline, use this time to simply be present in the moment, noticing the breeze riffling the clothes, the shifting light and the satisfying clip-clip of the pegs.
Hanging laundry out to dry already has a meditative quality: Pick up a shirt. Fasten it with two clothes pegs. Reel out a bit more line. Repeat.
If you have a clothesline, use this time to simply be present in the moment, noticing the breeze riffling the clothes, the shifting light and the satisfying clip-clip of the pegs.
7. Folding laundry
The repetitive nature of folding, coupled with the quiet satisfaction of seeing the tangle of clean clothes transformed into a neat pile, makes folding laundry another good choice for a meditative activity. Use your senses to enhance the experience, inhaling the scent of fresh linens and feeling the texture of the fabrics in your hands.
The repetitive nature of folding, coupled with the quiet satisfaction of seeing the tangle of clean clothes transformed into a neat pile, makes folding laundry another good choice for a meditative activity. Use your senses to enhance the experience, inhaling the scent of fresh linens and feeling the texture of the fabrics in your hands.
Steps to Begin Mindful Housekeeping
- Set a compassionate intention for doing your chore well – creating a nice, clean space for you and your family to sit and drink tea, for example.
- Take a moment to consciously relax any tension in your body.
- Gently become aware of your breath as you work, to help you stay in the moment.
- When your mind wanders (and it will) to complaints, your to-do list or something that’s been bothering you, simply notice the thoughts arising and return your attention to the task at hand.
- Pay attention to your senses: the feeling of warm, soapy water while washing the dishes; the grain of the wood benchtop you’re wiping or floor your’re sweeping; the sounds coming from an open window.
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The best way to de-stress with housework is pay someone else to do it then sit back and enjoy
What a beautiful way to begin my day ~~ thank you for the reminder.
@Josie Raimondi
If you are still reading Houzz, and still looking for a cleaning plan, I share my plan.
Tuesday may be devoted to my closet (my DH gathers and takes out the trash) until I get a self-sufficient system going, and in the summer Tuesday and probably Saturday (at least) will be dedicated to the outside gardens.