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placid1968

Even though I enjoy travel with my husband, I am really a home body at heart. I can't wait to try slow yoga. I decided a long time ago to simplify our home life and eliminate stress with a plan. First of all we only own one credit card, and we do not carry a balance. How do we do it? First of all we do not own expensive cell phones with high monthly fees. Yes, it's a smart phone, but it only costs us $28 for two months! We eat out once a month at best. I am an accomplished cook and there is nothing like a great home cooked meal. I do my own manicures and pedicures, and after 20+ years of having my hair professionally cut and colored every 4 weeks I started doing it myself. Another hint - take a shopping break - stay out of the mall, stop on-line shopping, and shop your closet. I created a capsule wardrobe and when I do shop I buy only quality classic clothing and wear it for a long time. If you want to get rid of stress just add up how much you spend on the above things for a year and think of how better you could use that money. I remember a few months ago as I was leaving our local Trader Joe's, I saw at least 15 girls standing in a line waiting to get into a nail salon - they were all looking down and playing with their phones. I wanted to pull up and yell, unless you have a fully funded Roth, or 401K, get out of that line! The parking lots at chain restaurants are packed, stop doing that as well. Try to enjoy some of the simple pleasures in life like going for a nature walk every week, every week put on a big pot of soup, clean and declutter your home, and take some deep breaths. Don't get me wrong, we live a full life - just prior to covid we were in Italy on a family trip, have spent extended trips to Ireland, love spa vacations, own 3 paid for cars, and we are mortgage free. It's all due to developing a plan, and I think we can owe it all to slow living.

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carol beachlady

Many good ideas here. As we are going into our 2nd winter of COVID, we must do whatever we can to find inner peace. Home - reduce clutter, keep it clean, Food - try to eat fresh and local when possible, and enjoy more plant-based foods. Avoid prepared foods, as these contain so many additives. I am always calm after cutting vegetables for a salad or a soup. There are so many good ideas for warming stews and chowders now. Have plants in your home. Find joy in seeing them grow, and better yet, if you can nurture pots of herbs and salad greens. Today my amaryllis are in full bloom. Here in Zone 9, they will bloom again in my garden. As many of us need to economize now, look at what's no longer essential in our lives. The idea of a budget that is no longer stretched to the max is calming. Intellectual growth is important. Spend some time in researching some subject that's new to you.

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Lynnell Madson

My husband and I decided to take a slow day or Sabbath once a week. A year ago we moved into my parents older home on a bit more than an acre in the Pacific Northwest. The house and the property had been let go and needed quite a bit of work. So we jumped in and started working. We initially put up a fence. Fencing in a portion of the back yard. We have two standard poodles who were well trained in suburban living but not neighbors without fences. Now a year later we wish we would’ve fenced the whole property. And we found out that chain link fence cannot simply be moved, once strung it’s very difficult to reuse. This is just one of lessons we learned. We worked hard every weekend never stopping for lunch and practically killed ourselves, while still maintaining our jobs. At some point in late spring when the gorgeous weather calls out to you here in PNW, I suggested a Sabbath to may husband. One day of the weekend with no big jobs or day full of errands and minimize screen time. A day to just be. Enjoy the yard, each other, our dogs and to watch our improvements. To slow down and really take the time to plan the project and all of the elements necessary. We learned a lot watching the sun and shadows for placement of plants and veggies. We found quiet and busy spots on our property and have many great plans for a yoga deck, a hot tub pergola, an herb and veggie raised garden. It’s a lot but we’re taking it slow and letting our property, the weather and our intuition guide us.

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