If you can simplify the run of base units - to make the worktop all one level, and possibly fit matching cabinet doors to the appliances, it should help to give a cleaner look and a less busy appearance. And then repaint in a fresh grey as suggested above.

You should choosing white paint for example, it will feels like you have more space in the kitchen :)

If you want a more integrated country look, have your kitchen professionally spray painted in a pale grey or white after rehanging the wall units so that they are all level. Replace the light pelmet to something plainer.

The worktop around the sink has gone quite dark from the constant presence of water. Consider having all the tops replaced with oak to coordinate with your floor. Wood knobs or pewter handles will complete the cabinetry.

Remove the tiles and replace with patchwork tiles to give you more colour. Make sure you pick up the cabinet colour and the floor colour in the tiles. http://www.toppstiles.co.uk/tprod44324/batik-patchwork-blue-tile.html

Paint the remaining walls with a pale colour to keep the room light.

Wow you guys are great -- this my first time to use this app and this is great advice and I must say you are all v observent-you have noticed things I didn't & I live here , thank you!