Wow lots of opinions out here. I prefer bm Distant Gray and Ice Mist as they don't have any distinct undertones (grays, yellows, pinks, greens) like the other whites and are in my eyes a PURE white. If I were doing your project in my own home, I would have the same color on the walls as the trim and the sheen on the trim would be semi-gloss. Walls would be satin or eggshell. If you go with a different color for trim need to be careful that it doesn't have yellow undertones which could make it appear yellowed and old. Beautiful home-have fun!!
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