Is this a remodel? I definitely think a kitchen should fit the house, and you said it's a farmhouse. How rustic do you want to go, or is it the white painted w/marble look you desire? While it's popular (trendy) now (and has been for years) it's not new.
Great examples have been posted. I also have a Chalon clone, built in England by a wonderful cabinetmaker. Love the one you built jdesign.
Whitewashed eastern pine, with a hutch instead of more cabinets. This one is at the beach, has a modern farmhouse look to it and would work elsewhere. It's certainly not trendy:
Here is a link to my Pinterest Kitchen board - lots of beautiful kitchens:
Here is a link that might be useful: Kitchen board
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