We've seen a lot of videos and articles in which people using mobiles phones while dining with friends are often criticised. How do you feel about this?
Do you use your mobile phone when out for dinner or even at home?
Unless the communication is absolutely vital or essential - a doctor on call for instance or a crisis at home, I think it's a total no-no to even have it switched on, whilst eating, particularly out to dinner or in company.
Absolutely not !! We have a total ban on mobile phones around our dinner table when we are eating, and only when we're finished and I say that we can 'get down' do the kids then run into the sitting room and see if they've missed anything in the 20 minutes that they've not had some device stuck to their faces. Same goes for the TV as well. We do have the radio on, but in today's busy lifestyle it's the very few times that we can actually all sit down together and talk about what's been going on.
I don't really see it as much of an issue. If I'm sat at the dinner table or out for dinner and someone gets their phone out to text or look at something I don't really care. Only have an issue with it if I'm having a conversation with someone and then they get their phone out while you're talking to them but that could happen anywhere. Other than that do what you want imo.
My kids are 17 and 19 now and they wouldn’t dream of using phones at the dining table. And actually it might have been that both me and their father wouldn’t have it but now I think they’ve found ways of managing the constant notifications on their phones and ignore it. I don’t fully understand since Houzz is the only social type app I have and really I’m a Luddite but I wonder if the tide turning?
It’s the epitome in bad manners and I hate it. I also no longer do social media, apart from Houzz, and I feel liberated! It’s so unimportant. Also removed all notifications apart from text - all those blinkin’ noises drove me up the wall!
Ribena Drinker
Tim Summers
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